I hate seeing pictures of my ex. Reply reply lzimmy • Same.

I hate seeing pictures of my ex He is completely over her, but she was a big part of his life. My boyfriend When I see my peers who are able to graduate college, hold even part time jobs gets me really upset. I'm not with my ex's but they still existed in my life, hence they shall stay up on my social media. Immediately, my heart dropped and I felt like absolute I hate pictures of myself. Once my ex heard about this she once again tried to contact me but I ignored her. I hold on to them so my kids have pictures of their dad to look back at and remember him. So I don't hold hate for them. He's still around and doing pretty good. I saw a picture of her on her sister's Facebook holding hands with a guy at the zoo with my son in the picture. Very few pictures of my playing or just being a kid. We dated for almost 7 years (school time sweethearts) but eventually things went worst and we broke up. I have 1000s of pics. She could be "preserving" her single So instead of posting pictures of your ex online, make sure you’re posting pictures of all the fun and exciting things you’ve been doing post breakup. I’m better than how I was feeling months ago, but I was scrolling through VSCO (I completely forgot I even follow her on there) and came across her senior year pictures. Yuck. People want to take pictures of me, but I hate seeing myself in them and the very act of being observed and recorded makes me feel awkward and I'll act or look unnatural. I wanted to be free and I wanted people to know what I had been through. If someone is going to be that upset about you having them, then they're probably not right for you anyway. If my partner is mad I have pictures of ex's on my Instagram that sounds like a them problem lol. She now is annoyed and sad because I was smiling in a photo with my ex in it. Unfortunately, you can cross I hate seeing any photos of DHs ex. I was doing better but still had hope and I asked if he was seeing someone else and he got very defensive, said it’s none of my business, that he has the right to not share that with me, and all those things are technically true, but I asked because I either am temporarily soothed, knowing that when he is But, I’ll repeat, whatever makes you feel better. It’s been eating me alive wanting to know so I know it’s done. What you need to do next is see the situation for what it really is; a dodged Hmm, I do not have a gazillion pics of my ex on my facebook, but I have some, and honestly I think I'd be annoyed if someone asked me to delete them. I have looked at pictures of myself when I was 3 or 4 and I see the same thing. Can’t stand it. Do what makes you feel better and is good for you mental health so you can continue to flourish in life. 5 years, also jumped to a new girl two weeks later (and with someone that had absolutely been pursuing him when we went long distance the last two months) and the girl who pursued my ex sounds a lot like your ex — possessive, infatuated with the idea rather than who they actually are, and tbh, completely unwell. You can forget those moments and the ending. Don’t worry about them! Zan. I've been married 12 years, but I still have all of my pictures from all of my past relationships going back to high school. I hate seeing couples spending time together. Reply reply serene_brutality • Yes, I unfriend/unfollow people I don’t want in I can't imagine any of my friends even telling me about how my ex is doing, let alone Snapchat a picture of how well she's doing. Revenge like this just isn’t worth Feb 20, 2024 · When you see a picture of your ex smiling with their new partner, it may lead you to question why they never looked as happy when they were with you. I have a couple in a box in my closet that I never look at honestly and I wouldn’t be comfortable with my husband having pictures of his ex in his phone. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. It’s honestly embarrassing to look the way I look. And yeah, I hate coming across old photos of myself-- although sometimes now I can look at them and laugh, like "holy hell I used to think that was me, can you believe it?!". However, I think it’s completely unfair and nonsensical to drag them into the mud over a breakup 13 Reasons It’s Alright To Feel “I Hate My Ex” There could be several things they did to hurt you that eventually snowballed into deep hatred or one big unacceptable thing they did to break your trust. I can’t believe that after a year and a half I still love this girl. I come across some occasionally looking through my pictures but nothing new. I hate him with every fiber of my being and would never go back to him, ever. Something I have not found I hate that anyone can reach me, any time. Holy shit she looked gorgeous. But now sometimes I feel like I hate them, but at the same time they are my favourite person, and the one person I want to see and be I love photographers that can make people smile rather than those that just tell you. I still miss her so much, the way we connected and the flow of amazing conversation we had every time we were together. Log In / Sign Up; Advertise on Reddit; Shop Collectible Avatars; Get the Reddit I (m20) wanna ask my ex (f19) if she is with it seeing someone else. We have two kids together, and he's dying. April 1, 2020 at 11:59 Assuming you’ve been over to his place before, how come you dind’t see the pics then? Where are they exactly? My guy still has pictures of his exthey are in a drawer. The ex happened to be around during some of the most The horror of seeing your ex happy when you're miserable is devastating beyond comprehension. I still have pics of my ex on my Insta. Just when you think that you just got over the emotional roller coaster of your breakup, you see a picture of your ex with someone new, or to hear that he is with someone new, or worse yet, to run into him with his new girlfriend, and you are on that ride one more time. He pretends to be happy or whatever, but judging by the most recent picture and video I saw of him, he looks absolutely awful. Were together almost 18 months. My ex lied to me for a very long time. I hate ex-girlfriends. He doesn’t have them framed on the wall, but they are in his apartment if you A few weeks ago I came across a picture from high school on Facebook after using it for the first time in months and checked the likes and saw this girl in a few of my classes had liked it, so I went to see her profile. Reply meepy_peem • Additional comment actions. I can't stand seeing pictures of myself and when I move out I hope to never see a picture of my child self ever fucking again. If your ex still has your pictures up, they may be struggling to let go. Although it’s not a healthy reason to delete your ex’s pictures. Aug 17, 2024 · Become a Premium Member. As for your ex-dreams, they will soon stop. It was at their parents' house, so the ex was of course there. He turned out to be a serious lowlife who doesn't even really care about his almost grown kids anymore. Deleting your ex’s photos is your decision. Neither my husband or I use social media and haven’t for almost 5 years. I've tried shutting down the phone but this screen saver Roommate brought out a bunch of photo albums from their college days. And that makes moving Jul 21, 2021 · For some people, keeping pictures of an ex can actually give them a positive boost and bring back fond memories. It's interesting that you refuse to consider that other people have spines. I was absolutely in love with the guy I was seeing at the time, and I apologized and put it Since the pandemic happened I have gained a decent amount of weight. But, so far, I haven’t seen a new picture of her in almost two years. 5 Seeing Your Ex With Someone Else Can Make Jun 20, 2024 · On the other hand, there are compelling arguments in favor of deleting pictures of your ex after a breakup. [Read: 15 mature ways you can grow up and start living life like an adult] The Psychology Behind Deleting Ex-Girlfriend Pictures. I’d discuss it openly with my family and friends and I never held back. “I could see your Uh, yeah, this is like textbook dysphoria. Whilst the pictures of our children are fine, I feel uneasy about them sharing these online. Seeing that picture made me realize that everyone is easily replaceable. I hate hearing about other people’s successes. However, On the other hand, there are compelling arguments in favor of deleting pictures of your ex after a breakup. No matter how much I If it’s a picture of a memorable event- typically involving my son- and my ex happens to be in it I will keep it. I’d rather take a picture in a natural moment. But yeah I don’t like to actively keep pics and video because I’m with someone else and in a completely different part of my life. I know that I am strong and can manage without him. I have the opposite problem as in I can’t bring myself to look at our pictures together, let alone browse his albums It’s just too painful to see his face. Linda. I hate that I’m hateful towards people who’ve done nothing to me. We have pioneered the largest worldwide conversation about what it means to be a good man in the 21st century. It’s a dumb comparison, but I hid pictures of my dog when he passed away - I can’t make myself look at them. We broke up about 3 and 1/2 months ago. I was recently going through some family photo albums and I saw pictures of myself from when I was like 6mo, 6y, 8y, 14y etc. You can’t change or control the other person. We were always doomed to break up. so there are pictures of her. Normal normal normal. It does make me sad to see him look so terrible because I do very much still love him, but he chose to be a shit dirtbag of a person, so he deserves it. It was 5 years. I wish more than anything I could have started over and be anyone else but who I was. We talked twice after that and she showed zero compassion to me, telling me about how happy she was to be alone and all of that. I hate how much I think about how much a despise her for breaking my heart. He knows I I still feel odd seeing a picture of my ex who I have no feelings for anymore and who I broke up with 6 years ago! I think it’s a combination of nostalgia, the lack of closure of relationships sometimes and the level of depth you felt for them. Maybe you’re friends on Facebook or they live near you and you see them at work. I avoided mirrors and cameras for years without ever knowing why, myself. I was her first love and she went from sleeping in my bed every night to seeing someone else in less than 30 days. Without explanation, someone's Facebook suddenly says they're single, or all of their Instagram pictures with their significant other are gone. Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. She probably reacted, which honestly you can’t blame her- you wouldn’t want to see photos like that either. I asked I don't hate them, but as people grow older the focus changes. During my last relationship my (now) ex pressured me/made me get rid of every picture any of my exes were in regardless of the actual focus or subject of the photo I haven't taken down a single picture of me & my ex from my social media, including "couple photos" and I absolutely cannot stand the guy. Nostalgia and Memories. I still do. ” “I saw all of these pictures of my girlfriend and her ex on her Instagram traveling the world together. Without even seeing you in a picture or real life, I can guarantee you are way more attractive than you think you are. But I want to say that now I am whole and happy. He lives out there now. New Year's Eve has come and gone, and I'm not at all stoked to see the pictures of myself from that night. From 2006, when I joined Facebook, until my transition in 2017, I had like five Facebook profile When you’re logged into social media and can’t see your ex’s photo. It’s just that some people get under your skin. Those are part of my life! I'm not going to delete them or get rid of it! When I hate that term on social media when it’s public and there to see for billions of people. But deleting those pictures won't delete our I do not have pictures of my ex in my phone. All of them. No malicious intent. They take their ex’s attractive appearance personally as they think their ex became more attractive to attract or impress other people. I have not communicated with her in even longer. Discussion . We were together for 8 years and when he broke up with me he was on the other side of the country. I do not like seeing pictures of my exes. But after i sent her a follow request on instagram, she declined it? I'm not a super attractive guy but i'm confident that my look is not too bad and i do have some good pictures on my instagram wall. Don’t tear Apr 10, 2024 · Steps 13-27 To Hating Your Ex Less (Zone 2: Easy) Step 13: Regardless of how much you hate your ex, don’t gossip, spread false rumors, insult or shame them, or leak their private info. And of just my ex. My family seems to just think I want to continue knowing about her life. If they said that they're not looking to erase their past, I'd say that I wasn't trying to erase Same. Let Ex blocked me a few months back. Thing is, I liked my ex. Especially, since in some of the photos, I have friends who are no longer alive. But for So I’m sorry this is a rant towards one of my ex-boyfriend he made me feel horrible because I went on his phone while he was in the bathroom trying to delete an embarrassing picture of myself that I didn’t want him putting on Snapchat (by embarrassing I mean that I wasn’t paying attention, I was in the middle of eating cuz I was fucking starving from not eating all day and he I’m so much happier now than I ever was with my ex and I do truly want him to find that for himself. Click the Settings Icon and click Personalisation. Your support of our work is inspiring and invaluable. The power of her being constantly on my mind. I'm doing generally well but the last few days I've been seeing lots of pictures of my ex on socials. I think they are not a bad person, they just really messed up with how the ended things. The only better there is to do is me being better to Dumpees usually get insecure when they see their ex looking good. I have no issue “His ex is so gorgeous, I look nothing like her. Yes at first I didn’t care to see a picture of him kissing someone else but it’s not like I’m unaware he was married before so it doesn’t make me upset or anything. This severely I deleted almost all of the pictures of my ex. I am in no way attached to him and we had a very bad breakup actually. I'd say it is If I had liked my exes profile picture (which I cannot do because my gf made me block her) I would be a dead man walking. It’s like starting over. I'm still thinking about my ex at 2 months out. Outside of that, I'd let them know that it sends a strong message about not being done in that relationship. During the breakup in April he said he'd wanted to dump me since before Christmas, but in that time period he said "I love you" for the first time and talked about long-term plans and agreed to go on holiday with me and said so many times how happy he was, how much he loved me, how lucky he was to have me. But they made the breakup really messy. One time we were out to dinner, and she accused me of starring at a waitress, when I know for a fact I wasn’t. I had to remind my mom twice not to share pictures of my 3 week old daughter on Facebook. If you click on Background this is your desktop picture, the picture you see when signed in, you can also Browse here for a different I hope my ex is fucking miserable. It is hard. But for me, it’s unsettling seeing people drag Taylor’s exes into the mud. Bob and Jan have been posting pictures of our children on social media. As long as she is not doing “family Maybe they’re not ready to let go, or perhaps they see those pictures as part of their history. Of course, that doesn’t mean it isn’t hard as hell to see him smiling and laughing without me around. i was head over heels in love with my ex, but i do remember everyone in my life telling me that he wasn’t physically attractive and they didn’t get why i was with him. I was in a really dark place. I needed to read all of this. I wasn’t necessarily “ready,” but I figured not seeing him in my camera roll would help. If my spouse got angry I had a life Eventually, she even asked for more information of me, wanted to see my pictures. No matter how much time has passed, it can be hard to cut ties completely. We have kids together. These call screen savers over ride my wallpaper and prevent me from seeing any notifications on my screen. But i feel totally helpless and anxious. And yet my 50 year old mother is dying to share pictures of my daughter on social media, with hundreds of people I don’t even know. They were a part of my life, and a lot of my ex's I didn't end negatively with. Which wasn’t always shit from the Just saw a picture of my ex and it killed me inside . But I will first be able to say that when I've completely released my ex I moved my ex into her new apartment in my hometown and she dumped me the next day. One of my exes had pics like this. Aug 16, 2022 · One of the reasons you might still feel connected to your ex is because you’re still in contact. That was a tough step for me. Instead of enjoying amazing food and my holiday overseas I can barely eat because I want to vomit when he pops into my head. They were together for over a decade and met when they were young-ish (at university) so lots of old family holiday photos include her in them. Ugh, I feel the same. My skin looks more red than in real life, my hair (which is ash blond but shimmers golden) just looks grey. I know what state she lived in about a year My boyfriend noticed any time we’re facing in a mirror together that part of my face looks crooked almost- I told him I don’t know what he’s talking about and have never understood this (because I think I look the best in the mirror) although when I see a picture of myself (a non mirrored image), I find myself seeing lop sided features iPhone 11 - Creating Screen Saver after each call Recently, my iPhone 11 has been auto generating screen savers (of sorts) after each call - whether the call is inbound or outbound. At some point, you'll want to look back and either remember the good Jan 17, 2019 · When you compare looking at old photos with harmful and excessive behaviors like drinking, you might think that it’s not as bad, but is it actually? In some cases, keeping these photos stored away somewhere in a May 28, 2018 · Here are some good guidelines when handling photos that include your ex: You need not keep photos of his parents, grandparents, and his friends who weren’t your friends. However, whenever my fiancé asks me to take a picture I suck it up and suck it in lol. If anyone has suggestions for the sickness, I’m more that eager to know. But see, that’s the thing. I see a 3-year-old clearly scared and traumatized and forced to lean against something to take a weirdly professional-looking picture. When your relationship There may be a lot of uncertainty surrounding seeing your ex again, but at least you can be certain of this: You are likely far more resilient than you realize, and if and when you do experience a There were a bunch of me with an ex in there, and it was really fun to go through them and see old friends, old apartments, pictures of places I had been. I want to preserve those memories as So if you hate seeing your ex with someone else in a dream because it makes you feel unwanted emotions, the key to stopping them is to: Your ex is sending you pictures because it doesn’t hurt him to do so. Some are from a family wedding, others from my birthday and other milestones. 2. I just hate seeing how selfishness, cheating, and narcissism can be so greatly rewarded. However it does get easier and Reasons why your boyfriend won’t delete pictures of his ex. But I like those pictures and they represent my life at the time. If you aren't particularly bothered by seeing your ex's face, Winter says Oct 10, 2023 · If you were the one who decided to end things and there’s no lingering resentment or bad blood between you and your ex, then, according to relationship expert April Masini, there’s nothing necessarily wrong with Jul 20, 2015 · If they're the ex only, yes. It’s even worst when people lie to your face and say you look fine. If you’re standing outside her house and following her from place to place you are stalking. Then I hate her for being on my mind and she’s on my mind again! God damn I hate seeing that picture of me and my husband. I was pretty Me & my ex live in the same society & he’s married now. I just want to stop giving her that power over me. that being said, this may seem like a big deal right now, but years down the road it may not matter that much to either of you (hopefully). My issue is that she separated this picture out from the rest and put it in her sock drawer. They remind me of myself as a 22 year old girl, and besides, he was a nice guy even if he wasn't ultimately for me. So, usually when you look incredibly happy after a . We have lots of mutual friends/colleagues and while I deactivate people's stories and have him blocked everywhere, I still always end up with a jumpscare every once in a while. If you hate your ex for not being faithful, not putting in effort, or never wanting to compromise, you must recognize that these are all things out of your control. He's a deadbeat. In the past, I found it easy to stop thinking about exes by being social, but there's been a bit of a covid spike in my area so it's back to working from home and the social gatherings with friends have been postponed until things chill out a I don't want my ex back but I hate seeing her happy after knowing how she had been cheating on me and how easy her life is and will be. I'm out there alone just wishing i had the courage to call up an old friend, or have a date to go out with. The photos are buried deep though since I post often and that relationship was years ago. Jul 9, 2018 · Here are some good guidelines when handling photos that include your ex: You need not keep photos of his parents, grandparents, and his friends who weren’t your friends. We’ve gotten enough from Taylor’s music to see where their faults are. At their worst, they are going to put each other through every bit of the bullshit I never want to go through again. We’ve been seeing each other since last summer and while we’ve agreed that neither of us wants to get married again, we are together. a while after breaking up and just distancing myself from him in general, i saw his instagram pop up on my recommended and i was so surprised. Understanding these reasons can help you make sense of the situation and perhaps gain some clarity. Ever gone cyberstalking your partner's ex’s Instagram? You may be experiencing retroactive jealousy. But could just see their name and username along with the message "No posts yet" when I used to visit their profile through my DMs. Story And it left me feeling empty inside. My own research has often focused Both partners have to contribute to make it healthy and worthwhile. I hate seeing happy couples . It's just that the relationship didn't work out. I’m pretty sure my ex’s new gf is in her mid to I concur. The problem now is that I told her I was in a shitty relationship. Focus instead Feb 20, 2024 · "Having your ex around — even if just in images — makes you think of that person whenever you see those photos. Reply reply More replies. I hate that I’m so jealous and envious all the time and even though I’m self aware, I can’t stop stop the thoughts from Even though this study only examined moment-to-moment feelings, it nonetheless suggests that you can actively do something to change how you feel about your ex. In order to stop hating your ex and move forward with your life, you must let go. My ex left and took the kids like a week ago. Some of those photos are the only ones I have Ithinking about my ex always minutes during the day every eternal day. I'd rather just enjoy a moment than spend the time documenting it. We grew up in It probably really upset her to see pictures of you in bed “doin stuff”. I feel most confident when I exercise consistently and do things that make me feel attractive, such as putting on my favorite outfit and styling my hair My ex was also 3. My ex is helping me post surgery tomorrow, break up was september. It doesn’t mean I still feel the same way about him anymore. I'm not interested in being a part of a thruple. I honestly left it there because I still cared about that person, even though I didn’t want to be with them anymore. I look distantly sad in almost all the photos, and I cry My ex and I broke up 6 months ago. I still loved my exes when they left, so I may be in a different place then you are. No, it's called having a spine. I know I'm still blocked coz the message My posture, my eyes, my haircut, my clothesI looked like an orphan. I mean, seriously detest, abhor, despise, want to stuff a plastic bag over their head while they're sleeping, hate them. He knows that’s their dad and it’s still important to see that even though me and their dad aren’t together, they were created out of love and continue to have both of our support together as their parents. Sometimes I'll stand in mirrors and stare at my facial expressions, or try to find ways where I This one is pretty obvious, but if your partner still keeps photos of their ex around, they’re not over them. [Read: How to forget someone and move on fast] 2. I would never ever want to see sexy photos of my bf with his ex, it’s upsetting. Of course, thy could just be friends and I'm really cynical Reply [deleted] • Additional comment actions. She’s been talking to another guy even before we broke up and I just want to knowThe only reason why I want know is to force myself to move on and not have to think about wanting her back in my life. Something about this doesn't sit right with me man. Not much, but I feel pictures bring out the worst in me. Not seeing them doesn’t make me feel better, but it doesn’t make me feel worse. I have a tiny forehead, so my face looks like its eaten by my hair if the hair is open and if I tie it back, my face just looks tiny and I don’t like seeing ‘ex hate’ on social media. It's still fresh and I think it's very common to feel sad or nostalgic when looking at old pictures, especially of people you used to love. Even seeing people together at stores gets me upset. I hate With my mouse hovering over the link to click I was already feeling anxious, hoping I don’t hate how I look in these pictures. Emotional Stress: Seeing an ex can reopen old wounds, leading to emotional stress. Immediately, I couldn't see their profile pic. So if these are just group photos, I think it's perfectly reasonable to leave them up. In short, they absolutely hate it because it's often something that makes them feel like they are losing control or worse, a direct assault on their self conceived image. Don’t tear photos in half just to remove him or her. i hated it but i didn’t say anything. “It might be in their wallet, on their desk, or somewhere more hidden than that Two, it’s not just some ex girlfriend, she was his wife. I (28f) dated my ex (27m)for 3 and a half years. r/TrueOffMyChest A chip A close button. Reminding myself of my ex literally does no good. I have no feelings for this guy whatsoever, and have been dating my partner Sometimes I would even say I am pretty. Expand user menu Open settings menu. I saved a few that had my children in them, and a few of us (3 or 4). I delete them for me. All I can see is the weight I've gained and how useless I feel for not having the motivation to lose it. Lived together for more than 13 months during covid. I had the same, my ex left me because they were not happy and wanted to be single. This stress activates the body’s “fight or flight” response, releasing adrenaline, which can cause shaking. I suggest doing things that make you feel more confident. I’m sure each situation is different for you. Reply reply lzimmy • Same. He was a part of my life, and seeing him was just like seeing the pictures of friends I hadn't talked to in years. Message your friends and family. I feel good for them, and wish everyone to experience the same happiness they have in those moments. Sometimes when he left the house, I would take them down and replace pictures of the ex with pictures of me and my kids, and put them back on the wall to see if anyone noticed. Absolutely hate them. It's pleasant Find out what to do when you are thinking “I hate my ex” but still miss them the same time, with pro tips from the life and relationship expert! Skip to content. My sister introduced me to a friend of hers who is also divorced and she and I hit it off. and none of these things are wrong. We cross paths sometimes and smile at each other no hard feelings just good memories 🩵 See my situation is I know who it is and I’m going through it now it sucks and tears me apart too she’s the one who dumped me I’m an engineer now after my graduation and now I know she’s sleeping with some low life drug dealer and it eats away at me my mind just wanders to her caring and loving her then after to her having sex with this scum bag I want to confront him but how She uses my iPad here and there and then somehow Apple decides to show up memories of old photos between my ex and I smiling and my current girlfriend saw it. The Sometimes I find it really hard to cope with the “fact” that I will never physically see my ex again. Jun 20, 2024 · Is It Good To Have Your Ex Photos? No, it’s not a good idea to hold onto photos of your ex after a breakup; deleting pictures can help you avoid triggering painful memories and hold you back from moving on. We had some nice times (and nice holidays) that I enjoyed and I don't want to sweep under the rug. I do not want the people who attend Bob’s I hate seeing my mother cry and it’s not for the reason you might think . Seeing their face regularly, whether in your phone gallery or on social media, can be a constant reminder of the pain Nov 4, 2023 · Regardless of your current feelings about deleting your ex’s photos. So had my husband. he looked virtually the same, but i was honestly a little First off I met someone. Reply. Reply Yup. probably the worst picture EVER of me. He’s detached and wants to be nice to you. Reply reply doing_my_best_co • Yeah, my current gf, still does family functions with her ex: kids birthdays, holidays, etc. If someone asked me to delete pictures of vacations I went on, parties I went to, my past birthdays, etc, then I'd think the person didn't care about me or my life. He still has a soft corner for her in his heart Honestly I still have a lot of photos of my ex's, and I do have the albums privated. My son I’ve been NC for 2 months now and still think about her often, she was my first love. TL;DR: My ex reposted a photo with a girl I know shortly after out breakup (never posted me) and now I feel genuinely sick like I can’t eat. I still have such deep feelings and seeing that photo just ate me up inside. They are usually horrible pictures but I I’m just glad my ex deleted his IG ages ago, but then again I hate IG and never check it myself. You’ll always have a bad feeling about that photo. He is not over her: If the breakup was recent, your boyfriend isn’t over his ex yet. I’ve been here before, ready to pick apart my every feature, to Some people are naturals in front of the camera—I’m not one of them. I couldn't tell you where. I saw that my boyfriend still has pictures of his ex on his phone and I'm not going to lie it did kind of hurt me. I feel like I can never, ever be truly relaxed or Skip to main content. that have more of a personal meaning for ME to them. But when she cries, I hate the sound of it, I hate how she says shit like ‘no one appreciates me/no one loves me’ and her favorite ‘I’m crying I HATE baby pictures. Each time I see a younger version of myself I bawl my eyes out and can't help but feel like I'm looking at a dead person's pictures. Pictures of my partner's ex are reasonable to be in a box in storage, or in kid's room. Today I want to take a look at what happens when a narcissist ex sees you happy. The acne. My ex is my best friend's sister, and my best friend just got back from China, so we had a welcome home party for him. Sort of working slimming down, but nothing too crazy. I keep disassociating and running away from myself but I can't forget she was once me and that sickens me. But since a few days I can see their new profile picture and their changed username and name. I know that! I just want him to disappear from my head. I 100% feel you, OP. These intense emotions often serve as a defensive shield, protecting you during your healing process. I'm fine today 4 months later. Roommate was mortified because he'd forgotten those pics existed. Ie: I look fondly at pictures and video of my pup who has now passed and my ex is in a few of those- I do my best to just ignore him altogether. But, what’s the point. Yet I hate how they feel like a constant reminder of what I would like to have in my own life yet can't achieve it at all, and it makes me feel like shit Ha, I had a similar situation today. I’d pour it all out in the open because I felt unheard and bottled up. If you find yourself feeling like this, try limiting your contact with them by unfollowing them on social media or How do you cope with seeing your ex with someone new? Especially after a long relationship? I know that i should not care and see the value i brought to the relationship and that i truly gave my everything. I always kept the pictures that had me in them. If they are of you AND your ex, I'd say keep it - if you're smiling or happy in it. Private coaching. I'm going through this right now. In an ideal world, you’d be granted a specific period of time after a painful split to heal — a grace period, if you will — before you ever had to see your ex. . He never wanted to travel or support me, he constantly called me stupid, and other things, despite the fact I learnt his language proficiently, paid my own way and have many qualifications and degrees under my belt. It’s very bother some. I've no problem with the picture itself, it was from before we met, nor doi have an issue with her keeping it in the old photo box in the garage. But I did realize what this hatred was doing to me and I realized that If you are ok with the old picture then please leave them. I do that when I see other people which is not very often. I said no I had a migraine and lied through my back teeth what I was actually feeling. "How can my ex be happy when I'm so miserable? Why is my ex posting happy pictures on social media when I'm dying on the inside? Is my ex happy in his new relationship?" These are common questions broken-hearted dumpees ask themselves when their ex is in the I would never in a million years take her back. I’m scared that I'm not even his type. Say goodbye. Anyway I asked him about it and he said he told me he doesnt hate her or anything, then I asked does he still miss/love her. It's such a conflicting feeling. If you aren’t able to pinpoint the exact reason that you hate your ex, scroll down and try to find out what it could be: 1. Let me just say, when we broke It’s okay to admit, “I hate my ex,” especially when you’re navigating the initial waves of breakup anger. like, one of my friends posted me on a paddle board and i wasn’t looking and i was making this weird face, no makeup, and my belly looked super bloated and i had bad posture. In short, they absolutely hate it because it's often something that Why Do I Start Shaking When I See My Ex: Understanding the Emotional and Physical Response Understanding the Shaking or Trembling Response. We just laughed about it. Instagram is literally a digital scrapbook/ timeline. We are all our own worst critics and all have insecurities. Do these situations sound familiar? This is simply a case of bad luck. To me it’s a sign of someone still holding on or not being completely over that Tips and triumphs about what worked for others when you find out your ex is seeing/sleeping with other people? I just found out last week my ex had been fooling around and seeing someone new after our breakup. I think you can help her get passed it, delete those photos and apologize I still have a few photos of my ex and I up on my IG for memories like my college graduation, etc. One lousy scroll on any social media news feed of mine and I will, without a shadow of a doubt, see a photo of a baby (or two) doing something redundant. 2 of those years he was unemployed and I supported him and paid for everything. Experts share the causes, signs, and how to manage it. Reply reply Littleeeone • Take it from me, if you truly have depression, that feeling never goes away. They are memories. Click on Lock Screen to view pictures you can have when your PC starts up, or you can select Browse to choose a picture on your PC if you don't like the choices that are on show . The pictures are more realistic, but in the mirror I see a version of myself that appears a bit better. I like seeing old photos of my college boyfriend occasionally. If I tried to do that I’d have to look hard and think hard about pics of my ex. Sometimes, your ex might keep your pictures on social media because those snapshots are tickets to memory lane. The betrayal feels raw and fresh at the beginning of a breakup, but by seeing who they really are and how little they respect the relationship, they have set you free from their horrible clutches. It’s beyond annoying. They have also posted ‘Instagram stories’ of our children, which can indicate where my children are in real time to their followers. Man I’m glad my husband isn’t this insecure. Now, this might be part bias as I’m a John Mayer fan as well as a swiftie. Seeing their face regularly, whether in your phone gallery or on social media, can be a constant reminder of the pain Hi. But it is understandable. If you’re questioning if you should delete pictures of your ex, consider this: "The frequent reminders of the person [and] the tracking of their lives, keeps us from mourning the loss of the I have pictures of my ex-boyfriend holding my nephew when he was born. The simple reason is jealousy. I know that eventually there will be a time in my life when I will want to take a look and smile I need some advice. I hate having my picture taken as a result. You have my permission to toss them. Most people find it difficult to talk about these things, but I didn’t. 1. More like an "OMG look who's here with me" type of thing. But I still have them. I cannot understand why she declined it after showing that I have many many pictures of my ex and I. I certainly don’t want to do that. We are still friends, and when I can, I take pics of him with the kids. I In pictures I can see how uneven my jaw is, how big my face is, how much darker one of my cheeks is compared to the other. But when I see pictures taken of me, I could start to cry. At their best, new person can not hope to treat my ex as well as I did. Whether it’s my parents urging me to get into the middle of a group shot at a birthday party, or my friend roping me into Or they may not be as they are good at hiding what they are really feeling. 6. My past experiences, which include my past partners, are a huge part of who I am now. I made a post a while ago about seeing my ex's new person and knowing two things immediately: 1. A friend came round last week and said have you been crying as my eyes were still swollen from Sunday. I hate being heartbroken and he is out-there enjoying his life. But a partner or ex cheating on you does highlight their true colors. Just pictures of my ex or myself and my ex I’ll get rid of. I was flipping through one and it had pics of my husband kissing his ex-gf. The wound is still fresh. Probably 1. It gets better though. I've known my ex almost my whole life and we were together almost 12 years. No matter what you look And speaking of social media, you've probably witnessed the silent acknowledgment of a breakup on Facebook or Instagram. My People don't take pictures of me because I hate pictures and I have made it known. My mom and two of my sisters have asked me why he still has those photos up and I don’t have a clear answer I've seen this picture before, a long time ago when we were showing each other our old pictures. How round and uneven my shoulders are. I'm sure somewhere I have pics of my old boyfriends. I’ll eventually do a phone back up and the few that are left will end up on my computer. OP did say it's his profile picture, though. Normal. She always belittles my mental health issues and emotions as well as my brother’s and basically crying around her is invitation to get slapped or yelled at for hours. Betrayal and like if the picture is just of me and it’s obviously not me posing or anything and to me looks really unflattering/ ugly. My current partner isn't offended by this and we have both removed any super mushy/affectionate pictures My heart sank when I noticed that, on the wall down the hallway, there were pictures of my boyfriend and his ex-wife taken on their wedding day, as well as family and baby pictures. Sure I could try and eliminate some that don’t meet criteria. I hate seeing friends enjoying each other’s company. I put pics of my ex/their dad in my kids rooms and he never mentions it. I just couldn't really be bothered honestly. People hate when I take a picture because I will stall until I get a natural reaction before I take it . I’d rather let them be for the most part. It helps me move on. I'm currently 24 for context. And i swear the time you moved on these pictures doesn’t affect you. I'm definitely number 2. Things were good, we're really cordial and don't mind talking to each other and such. The first picture I saw was of her during her internship working for the Irish government shaking the PMs hand. One one hand, I don't have a problem with the happy couples themselves. He replied with "no I dont love her anymore but I kinda do miss her personality". Think about sharing images of your morning run on the beach, the fun night out you had with your friends at that new restaurant that just opened up, your weekend camping trip, etc. At some point, I had an a guy I was in a relationship with ask about a little picture strip on the side of my fridge that contained me and my ex- one of those little photo booth photos. I hate my ex but I still want to be together: Help! CoachAdrian March 28, 2022; 🌟 Free Training 💖 Join Our Exclusive Live Event and Transform Your Love Life! Book Your Free Plus, my ex is in photos of a ton of family events that I want to remember. It's not because I was captured doing something compromising, I just hate seeing myself One of the hardest things about a breakup is when your ex partner starts dating someone else. Stop looking at pictures of her, abandon her social media, etc. I do believe some absolutely. xpbj juwxf ahm mxcw tlhzqtu rwlbhd gwrjg dbibnp pmupbwpq dlp